I bought a gift for Christmas for my BF of 5 months. He seems to be upset about this what should I do?
He saw the box in my car and it is big. He assumed that it was expensive (it is not!!). He called me later day and said I don't have to buy him anything, he doesn't need anything or he can get it himself of he want something. From his voice, I don't really know how he feels about it. Now I don't know what to do (I got him The Massager since he always have back pain) . I gave it a lots of thought to pick the gift. Should I return the gift? and just get him a card or give it to him anyway. I don't want him to feel that he obligate to get me anything. or should I get something else smaller? This is suck!!
Go ahead, just do whatever you want. You are so care for him. What did he do for you? I think a massager is fine. It is what you want to send to him, and it is also you think he need. That's enough. If he still can't be satisfied, that means he is the man with big stomach, difficultly to fill in. Then I suggest you to think over your relationship very carefully.